A letter to the heartbroken.
Dear reader,
I hope you aren't but if you are going through heartbreak right now keep reading. Heartbreak can come from anywhere, from death, from love, from hate, from family, from friends, anywhere and anyone. You never know it's coming until it does and you can't prevent it.
But it's okay.
You're allowed to be heartbroke, it means you're human, it means you're a good person with good intentions. Whatever you were feeling you felt it strongly and something happened that brought you crashing down. It'd be more concerning if you weren't sad. People will tell you you need to get over it, you need to cheer up, you need to not think about it, it's not worth your time. Ignore them.
If it is enough to make you upset in the first place it is enough to be an issue. You are allowed to cry, you are allowed to take time on your own, you are allowed to go through all these emotions. Because how would you be able to heal if you're still upset? What you need is a friend who won't tell you all this "You need to forget" you need a friend who will sit and let you cry, who will hold you only when you need holding and wait patiently until you are ready to heal before starting to recommend ways how.
Everyone goes about this process in their own way. It's okay, it's a good thing. If you know someone going through this don't offer to do what you would want, ask what they want. If they don't know ask if they want to feel sad for a while. Sometimes all it takes is patience, you can't expect a wilted flower to be repaired the next day.
It's the same with humans.
Thank you for reading ♥
Now go tell your friends how much they mean to you!
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So credits just incase anyone does want them
Backdrop - FOXCITY Cocktails & Carbs
Pose made with anypose
Truth - Elixir & Horizon
Hangry - Milkshakes
Cosmic Dust & Sakura - Black cat phone (it was from a collab gacha)
Tentacio - Carnival Food pack
Flickr - https://flic.kr/p/2gzmeXj
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